School and Life Advice

Tuesday, 22 October 2013

School and Life Advice

 

Today's post was originally meant to be a back to school post but i've just never felt in the mood to write it and i would never write a post that i didn't want to, it would be rubbish and i'm sure you could tell my heart wasn't in it. However i just sat down and decided to write this on a spur of the moment after receiving another question.

I asked you guys for some questions based around school and school life which as i too attend school i hope i can help you with.

Question One: How to cope with others gossiping about you behind your back? 

First of all i hope you know that anyone who feels the need to stoop as low as to talk about you behind your back isn't worth the worry. But of course, we've all been gossiped about and it's hard to think that way when horrible things are being said. I think the best way to cope with this is to surround yourself with positive people, a nice and true group of friends who would stand by you, that way when these people see you in the school halls or around town all they will see is a girl having a hell of a lot more fun and laughter than they are. Also, if these people gossiping are your so called "friends" please know that the best thing to do is drop them. Your not loosing a friend if they were doing that anyway, that's DEFINITELY  not what friends do.

(from _arianalovers_ on instagram)

Question Two: Your must have beauty product for school? 

This one's a little more light hearted. Your probably fully aware of my baby lips obsession by now so it should come as no surprise to you that i always have a baby lips in my blazer pocket. I think any lip balm is essential for school and i love how baby lips give you a subtle color, making you look like you've made a lot more effort than just rolling out of bed.

(Paige on instagram)

Question Three: How to fit in blogging around studying?

Girl i wish i knew the answer. I struggle with this too, it's so hard to fit in revision and homework around things that actually matter to you. I find its easiest to get any coursework/homework you have out of the way, ideally the day you get it, leaving at least one night a week free. If you think you can't spare a night then organize your blogging in stages. Set aside half an hour to take pictures for any blogs you want to do in the near future so when you do manage to squeeze in time to do a post the pictures are all ready and waiting.

(Fleur on twitter)

Question Four: How to deal with the boy you like not liking you back?

Oh lord. Right back in the deep end. I'm not really sure how to answer this one to be honest, i think the best way of saying it is that there will always be people who don't like you. Even the best, most respected people aren't liked by 100% of the population, it's probably nothing person so please don't get yourself too down about it. It's obviously going to be tough though so i think the best medicine for now will be ben&jerry's. You'll be over him soon lovely, i promise!

(Abbie on instagram) 

Question Five: After PE make up?

Lets be honest, your never going be looking your best after PE and neither is anyone else so don't feel too self conscious after sports. Nevertheless, after PE when your mascara has smudged and your looking a little on the shiny side powder will be your best friend, you can get really cheap ones from brands like MUA that you can just store in your sport bag, along with a make-up sponge or brush. I also think touching up your eye make-up will make a big difference. Perhaps apply some eye-liner and go over your mascara to draw attention away from your probably bright red face and towards your eyes. 

(Ellie on instagram)

Question Six: I'm worrying that people from school will find my blog, do you have any tips?

Gurl, first of all stop worrying! I mean first off anyone who will judge you because your writing a blog isn't worth the time of day. Imagine how boring your life would have to be to judge someone for doing something that makes them happy. Just because your doing something with your life and spare time while theirs is purely based around peoples un-happiness. Anyway, rant over. I personally am quite open about my blog. I don't really mind anyone knowing about it, it's only really when they read it in front of me that i feel un-comfortable but i put it out on the internet so i suppose it's there at their leisure. Obviously you don't have to tell anyone at all and you could use just your first name to iliminate the fear of anyone from school googling your name and it coming straight up but i think if your not comforatble with your blog being available for anyone to see maybe your not ready to blog (i sound so mean im sorry omg).

(Karen via email)

Hope these helped, im sorry i didn't answer them all i might do another one soon!

Happy Tuesday my loves

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